This is meant to accomplish a few things:
1. graceful no longer spawns an additional goroutine per connection.
   Instead, it maintains a sharded set of idle connections that a single
   reaper goroutine can go through when necessary.
2. graceful's connection struct has a more orthogonal set of connection
   state flags, replacing the harder-to-understand state machine. The
   underlying mechanics are largely the same, however.
3. graceful now uses the Go 1.3 ConnState API to avoid the "200-year
   SetReadDeadline hack." It still falls back on SetReadDeadline on Go
   1.2 or where ConnState does not apply.

This feature can be used in place of the pile of hacks in middleware.go,
and doesn't involve awkwardly shimming out a http.ResponseWriter. Sounds
like a win-win!

Package graceful provides graceful shutdown support for net/http servers,
net.Listeners and net.Conns. It does this through terrible, terrible hacks, but
"oh well!"